How to cope living with a mother only..

Life has so much wonders but some of them make me wonder..Statistics say that 60% of most children are raised by single parents and mostly are single mothers.

But the questions i ask myself is are men heartless?? do they know how a father's love is important for the growth of a child?? what were they thinking making a woman pregnant and not getting involved with the child?????doesnt this cute child below deserve to have fatherly love?

Wel 4 me i have gone through that,not having a close father and its not the best feeling knowing a father figure is so close to you but yet so far away..But that is life n u get used to it..its not easy because u have to live life kinda different.

Anyway i'l outline few ways on how to cope living with a single mother:

1.ALWAYS THANK GOD

This is very very important 4 u having a single mother..ALWAYS thank GOD 4 giving u a mother..remember there are other children who would love to have the same mother u have so always remember to thank GOD

                                                                    

2.BE UNDERSTANDING

This is very very important..Remember a single mother raising a child or children isn't as easy as u the child may think..I know u may want something and your mum ends up telling u no,or she cant afford it,so when u are told this be UNDERSTANDING..things dont have to go your way,so dont end up abusing ur mum coz u may end up with curses,so always be understanding!!

3.BE APPRECIATIVE

Always be appreciative! never complain about anything u are given,,even if its little just appreciate coz that little u have been given,others don't have n would love 2 have so always be thankful..

remember when u be thankful or grateful for what u have u attract more good things you want in life.so always have THE ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE..

4.BE LOVING TO YOUR MOTHER N ALWAYS MAKE HER HAPPY

This is very important if u want 2 live peacefully n a life full of blessing n happiness..NEVER make your mother sad or unhappy..remember without her u could have never been in this world! so show her the loving she deserves n ALWAYS make her happy

remember to make her proud of u and definetly you will live life without problems n she will be happy then when u ask 4 something,u will get it ;-)

5.DONT ASK MANY QUESTIONS ABOUT YOUR FATHER

Well this happens  to 55%of most teens living with their mothers only coz their fathers ignored them..and probably they gonna ask, "why shudn't i get 2 know my father?" or "he is still my father.he has a right 2 be in my life"

Well this is going 2 be hard 2 swallow but why do u want 2 get to know a person who clearly does not want to be in your life? If he did want to be in your life he could have never ignored you at the first place whatever the circumstance.. so what i would advice accoring to me is DONT ASK TOO MANY questions about your father coz u may end up getting hurt,  depressed,sad n THEN u will start BLAMING your mother for actions which were not her fault!! n this may bring tension between u and your mother..So i'd prefer u just let things be n dont ask many or if possible no question about your father..

6.GIVE RESPECT,SUPPORT AND CARE TO YOUR MOTHER

This are the very important aspects when living with a single mother..as we all know "respect your parents so that we may live longer"..so always listen to your mother because she is the only parent you have and ge grateful u have her.support her

in whatever the circumstance and always care for her..

Trust me folks when u follow the few tips i have outlined you will live a life full of happiness like i have and u will know how to cope living with a single mother....

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